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Relaciones en el Internet

Lo prometido es deuda. Aqui la historia real de una de mis Coqueta Members.

Compartir nuestras experiencias sirven para dos cosas: apoyar a una persona necesitada, a sentirse mas segura, que no esta sola, que hay otras personas pasando por los mismo, y que todo en la vida tiene solucion y que las soluciones y desiciones a tomar pueden ser inteligentes y acertadas de acuerdo a la situacion dada. Y la otra, para aprender y poder identificar situaciones experimentadas por otros para nosotros; o no caer en ellas, o si estamos ya, saber lidiar con lo presente.

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Here is a real story from one of my Coqueta Members. Sharing our experiences is good for two reasons: one, we can support a person to feel more secure, to be there for them in case of loneliness, and that there are other people possibly going thru the same situation. Together we can find solutions to our problems in an intelligent and correct way that fits our specific reality. Two, sharing help us to learn from one another in order to avoid the same situation, of if we are in one already, to do the best of it.
If you have a story to tell and something to share you can do it by writing to me at Coquetaclub@aol.com, I'm here to listen to you, talk to you, be there for you and support you.
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Dear Coqueta:

I know inside of my mind what I need to do, but I would like to have your opinion and what do you think.

I discovered my husband have a relationship thru the internet. I didn’t want to give to much importance because it’s just a computer thing. I also knew it was a woman from his country very far away, so what was the point of give it too much credit. Besides my husband has been very good to me.

Because we use the same computer one day I was able to see pictures of this woman, it was a file with her name and have all kind of pictures of her, at the beach, at a swimming pool, at her house, with tight clothing, a picture of her white tight shirt exposing her “happy breast”, and I look at all of them and put them away. The woman is not ugly but is not a miss universe product. I classified her as a simple woman.

I felt a little uncomfortable but at the same time the pictures were “normal”, it looks that she just wanted to show her friend, my husband, how she looks, there were no sexy standing or anything to let me know those were pictures to seduce may husband. There were also pictures with her children, a boy and a girl.

One day that we, my husband and I were working with pictures in the computer the file came up and I asked him who is Marcy, and he said, “oh, that’s one of the so many friend I have (in his country), you don’t know all of them”. I see that, I don’t know all of them, can I get to know her? I asked him. My husband instead got irritated and told me that I should not check on his stuff. Right at that moment he woke up my suspicious about this matter and I kept my eyes open.

The day arrived. There was his internet connection open, halleluiah.

I was there in front of our computer with open access to find more information on the matter. Where should I start? I decide to open letter in the "send file", and voila! There were many letters from my husband to that Marcy. I went to the inbox and I found letters from Marcy to my husband. I read all the letters I was shaking.

To be continue...
If you would like to know more about this story, just let me know.
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